The idea of writing this letter to you came to my mind while completing an assignment where I stated something starting with “…when men” while referring to a general aspect of human nature.
It struck me, quite weirdly, what some sets of feminists often talk about — how you too (I do not know intentionally or not, willingly or unwillingly) have given in to patriarchy. It’s sad.
You are a child of language, language that all of humankind (at least we have moved on from “mankind”) uses to communicate thoughts and ideas and feelings. Yet, sometimes, using you puts men on a slightly higher platform than all of the other genders, because words like “guys” while addressing a room full of more than a single gender are casually used.
Also, while I do not want to take names, but in certain languages, a group consisting of varied genders is referred to, in masculine.
It’s ironical, isn’t it, how something that’s so diverse in its very nature entirely ignores diversity?
I’m guilty too. I often go to a group of my girl friends and start my sentences with “okay guys” or “bhai sun na..”
I sometimes feel that you are, after all, the biggest weapon all of us on Earth have, for you make our voices go loud and clear and also echo in minds, and while all of us are allowed some flaws, the position you hold, it’s time we work on the flaws and move towards making you slightly more gender neutral, for you really can’t afford the flaws.
Thoughts that come and go, but shouldn’t go.